The Quiet House and the Road Ahead
- Eric Craven

- 5 days ago
- 4 min read

Looking back to when my three kids were teenagers, it makes me smile to think that my
wife and I would go on and on for hours about how excited we were to have them out of
the house and living life on their own. Fast forward several years as a now even older
me is sitting on a plane as I return to our now empty nest after helping our middle child
move into her own place nearly 1000 miles away.
You can probably already guess what my conversions with my wife will now go on and
on for hours about? About how excited we are to have them return. The activity, labor,
emotions and seasons of life work in wondrously confusing ways.
What now? Many empty nesters will suddenly find themselves with more time and
more money. Two incredible valuable blessings to wake up to each day.
Here are a few things to think through as you pace around that now quieter house. This
is certainly not an exhaustive list, but hopefully it will spark ideas around improving
and/or setting a plan for your future.
Retirement Plan - Hopefully you have a plan already. This is the time to reassess to
discover if you are still on track to hit your desired goal(s). If not, don’t panic. Time to
spend a bit of that extra time on your hands to hunker down and map things out. Find
out what it is going to take to accomplish it. Don’t retire too early. Better to leave a
stressful job and take one that pays less rather than allowing your stressful job to
convince you to stop working altogether a bit too early. More people run out of money
in retirement than you think. Working a few additional years makes a big difference. I’m
not saying you want to, but you may need to.
Budget – Make a monthly budget that you’ll stick to today that contributes to your plan.
Make a future living in retirement budget to better protect yourself against running out of
money while living in retirement. Some factors to consider – Go to the Social Security
website, create an account and find out how much your estimates benefits will be at age
62, 67 and 70. When doing your future budget, factor in those specific figures and do a
conservative income estimate in case social security benefits are decreased. Don’t
forget that your future retirement expenses will be smaller in some areas but will
increase in others. You will have more time on your hands and more free time often
equals more outgoing cash flow. Those items on Amazon that look foolish when you
are working suddenly appear extremely desirable when you scroll by them enough
times.
Debt - Do your best not to add any debt at this point of your life. In this vien, I have had
many conversations with individuals and couples who are putting every extra dollar
aside to pay off their mortgage instead of using a chunk of that excess cash to add to
retirement savings or general investment savings. Yes, it is nice to no longer have a mortgage but remember as many have said before; “You can’t borrow money for
retirement, but you can borrow money for a home.” Putting more away into a wisely
invested investment account, adding to tax protected or tax free (Roth) retirement
accounts can potentially yield some impressive investment returns.
Inflation - When doing your budget don’t forget to factor in inflation at roughly 3% a
year. McDonald’s average Egg McMuffin cost over time proves that to not consider
inflation is McDangerous. Average Cost: 1974 - .63 cents, 2004 - $1.89, 2024 -$5.44. 1
Who doesn’t like a good Egg McMuffin, with a bold cup of coffee, while sitting on the
back deck? Make sure you factor inflation into your future budget. It will make a
difference.
Many other factors should be considered, such as Estate planning, new or increased
time spent involved with your hobbies, caring for aging parents or young grandchildren,
potential additional traveling to see children, grandchildren, family and friends, money
you wish to leave behind for children, dream vacations, future taxes, life insurance,
charitable giving and long-term healthcare. Yes, it is a lot! You’ve already successfully
navigated the “a lot” of raising children and having a plan for the future is within your
ability as well. We are here to help you traverse this new unchartered territory in your
life and help decrease the chances that you are caught off guard. Give us a call, we
would love to meet you.
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